I started this blog when I began my Peace Corps journey back in October 2015. I’m afraid to have to announce my Peace Corps journey in Ukraine has come to an end. If you’ve read my previous blogs, you know I had to be medevac due to mass they found (Thought to be an enlarged lymph node or cyst?) during an ultra sound that was required during my physical exam to extend my service for one year. When I arrived to Colorado, a CT scan and a needle biopsy was performed. Well, thankfully what was thought to be a concern was just fatty tissue from my previous surgeries. Although I was deemed 100% healthy and my melanoma doctor felt I could still perform my duties for an extended year, Peace Corps felt there were too many risk factors associated with my case and chose not to allow me to return to Ukraine. They gave me two options, “medically separate from my service” and appeal their decision, to not allow me to return to Ukraine or COS (close of service) from America. I chose to COS from America because I wanted to keep my successful service a positive one.
I find myself learning how to adjust to American life again. I wasn’t quite prepared too! This is what I have learned in the past weeks.
- Washing my clothes – I’m not sure if I can get used to washing and drying my laundry in under one hour.
- Microwaves – I find myself still using my stove top to re-heat food.
- Choices – I keep telling myself “just because you can buy Cheeto’s and Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups doesn’t mean you should”.
- Cars – I walked 2.5 + miles to work every day in Ukraine, In America, I drive. I have been forcing myself to walk as much as possible.
- Language – Although I never had the greatest language skills it takes everything in my power not to address someone in Ukrainian.
- Lifting heavy items – Due to “man’s roles and woman roles”, even when I wanted to lift heavy items a gentleman would always do this task for me. Poor John would insist on carrying heavy items for me because he didn’t want to be seen allowing me to do this task! I now lift weights everyday!!
- Long hot showers – My sister had commented on how fast I take showers. In Ukraine, there’s one purpose for a shower and that is to get clean and save water. There was no relaxing under a hot shower head.
- Cooking – I realized I can’t cook in America, it will take me a while to get used to cooking here again. Mostly it’s the convince of cooking items that’s tripping me up, and recognizing I don’t have to cook the longer, harder way.
- American headaches – Don’t ever let your driver’s license expire – I was so busy trying to get everything in order for Peace Corps, I failed to renew my driver’s license before I left. In Colorado, if you don’t renew it within one year you have to re take the written and driving portion. FYI it’s not so easy to do after 20 + years and causes an incredible amount of stress!
- Life is easier, happier and much more enjoyable with your best friend at your side – Yes, John is still in Ukraine – This leaves me to announce John’s decision. His 1-year extension was approved, while he planned on fulfilling the extension, he has made the decision to COS (Close of Service) and will be COS’ing on January 15th. We both were on a journey as a couple and we have decided to move forward in our lives together. I plan to fly back to Ukraine the first of January to join him for a Ukrainian Christmas (January 7th) and help him close his service. Afterwards, we plan on traveling Europe for a bit. We are not in a hurry to go back to the American grind just yet, we plan on enjoying ourselves for a short while!
As I mentioned in my last blog I created a “just in case I couldn’t return to Ukraine plan”. Before I left I wanted to do as much as possible. John and I traveled to Kyiv for a Scorpions concert.
I got a tattoo to represent my service.
I said good bye to friends and community members including my neighbor and hairdresser!
I pretended to “Ring the Bell” in my Vyshyvanka – This is an ongoing tradition in Peace Corps, you ring a bell in your traditional Ukrainian dress to signify your service has come to an end.
And most importantly I finished my final grant with my organization “Eco-Carpathians”. I was incredibly proud of this project in which brought a series of Public Relation trainings to the employees of the Carpathian National Nature Park. Including, new uniforms for the employees at the each of the trail head check points, new information boards and territory informational material translated into English.
Included in our project was a series of Eco lessons for school children of different age levels on “litter separation” including a promotional video on this topic that will be shown in schools.
While I am disappointed my service has come to an end, I also knew it wouldn’t go on forever. I hold on to the fact that I had the most amazing experience and I proudly honored my 27 months commitment as a volunteer, this is something I didn’t think I could do after my first hospital debacle. Peace Corps gave me incredible medical care during the unfortunate medical discovery of melanoma, I will forever be grateful to Peace Corps for giving me so much and expanding my mind in a variety of ways.
I want to thank all of you who followed my journey for the last two years, I hope you enjoyed it as much as I did. John and I are looking forward too many, many more new journeys!